Seduction and love

 Lesbians in Love

You all know the story of me and my main partner M (that's been chronicled in my blogs over the years.

As you know, we are a couple, an open couple, a lesbian couple and a poly couple.

But this blog is not about us, but our Sisters that live, love and work with us.

Romance and love is something that is fostered within the order, its a healthy thing.
As  Asian women (probably all women, really) are born lesbian, this only having being repressed by the male constructs that being Gay/ lesbian is unnatural, but  monogamy, marriage, religion and patriarchy are natural things. It's so good to see women throw off these shackles.
Whereas many western Lesbians seem to trying so hard to emulate and implant "straight rules and roles" into their relationships, we do not. 

Polyfidelity rules :

As a "Sisterhood" we are a family, we have taken an Oath and made a commitment to each other, as a group.

The group supports and loves each individual, the individual, supports and loves the group.
Our focus is on the group, the success and happiness of the order and everyone within it.
The sacrifice is to give up self interest, self centeredness and self obsession as being the path to happiness.

Each member of the order is a lover to ever other member, not to say that they necessarily  have had sex with every member of the order, but they could.
A sister may only be with one person for a while or many a day or none.
Sex does not equate to love, love can be expressed in many different ways.

Although many of us have our main"partner" we all share, why ?

We are sisters, lovers, women, a group. Unlike others we are free to love others, not just one, as we are not selfish, insecure or jealous.

We are women in touch with the true nature of women.

We are financially independent as a group so there is no need for pretending we are "straight and as we are not tied to one person (monogamy) or to marriage, we are not reliant on just one person. 

This affords us a freedom unknown to most women or even to most lesbians.

Even the novices (once through their rehab) are able and free to explore their female sexuality for the first time soon start forming sexual and intimate relationships with others.
I must have heard them say so many times now, that they have never experienced sex or love like it.

Now I'm not saying sex cannot be enjoyable with men, it can, penises, like any other sex toy have their uses. But I doubt if even straight women would marry their vibrator, they marry men for money and financial stability ( and that applies in every culture across the world) .
It was one the building blocks of patriarchy to make women financially dependent on men for their (and their children's  survival.
Now that economies have crashed, women are getting educated and have jobs, men are finding it more and more difficult to be this God like "provider" hence the rise of the "masculism movement".

However, we just fuck them for money, we don't have to live with them or pretend to love them.
Although to be fair some do, Gemstone is married to a man and loves him, but then again he's not like most men.

Ops rambling again, my bad !

Polyfidelity, what's that ?


Polygamy, as it has been practised throughout the world's cultures, has always tended towards this hierarchical, dominating structure. It does not encourage the freedom of all individuals, but rather, it encourages the submission of half to the other half; it encourages the domination of men over women. Naturally, it produces the other ill by-products of Sexism: domestic violence, discrimination, and exclusion.

Polygamy is a situation where there is one ruling spouse, and others must contend for their attention. This is vastly different from Polyfidelity, where each member of the group is in an equal position to the other. Rather than there being one man and many women, or the reverse, it tends toward having an equality of partners. In some cases, this has meant a proportionate and mixed group of men and women, as in the Kerista commune.  In other cases, this has meant a polyandrous relationship consisting of all gay men or all gay women. 

The traditional system of polygamy, harems, and concubines works to serve the sexual interests of just one at the expense of many. Polyfidelity serves the interests and liberties of all participants equally.

Both Polyfidelity and polygamy exclude outside members from interacting with the partners, but they are distinguished in their purpose. Polygamy is a device of sexism for social exploitation, while Polyfidelity is an open, sexual society, though exclusive to its chosen members.

So what are we ?

Well we have sex with others as we are whores, but love only those in our community and family, that is what really matters, at least to us.

Also the sex we have together is not the same sex we have with you- the Johns and Jane's.

You get our bodies for an act, for a period of time. Most of us have experienced an orgasm with a client, why would we, there's no emotional connection, no need to.

We just like everyone else, get our orgasms from our lovers. we get the real sex, the real passion, feelings and love.

The  freedoms and rewards that come with having multiple sex and loving partners is difficult to describe to those who have never experienced it, almost impossible to those Who's indoctrination into and acceptance for monogamy and marriage is complete.

I guess you just have to see it and live it to believe it.

By the time a girl reaches to be a "full sister", then it get's really good.

"A person's approach to sexuality is a sign of his level of evolution. Unevolved persons practice ordinary sexual intercourse. Placing all emphasis upon the sexual organs, they neglect the body's other organs and systems. Whatever physical energy is accumulated is summarily discharged, and the subtle energies are similarly dissipated and disordered. It is a great backward leap. 

For those who aspire to the higher realms of living, there is angelic dual cultivation. Because every portion of the body, mind, and spirit yearns for the integration of yin and yang, angelic intercourse is led by the spirit rather than the sexual organs. 

Where ordinary intercourse is effortful, angelic cultivation is calm, relaxed, quiet, and natural. Where ordinary intercourse unites sex organs with sex organs, angelic cultivation unites spirit with spirit, mind with mind, and every cell of one body with every cell of the other body. Culminating not in dissolution but in integration, it is an opportunity for a man and woman to mutually transform and uplift each other into the realm of bliss and wholeness."
--Lao Tzu, c. 600 BC
"Hua Hu Ching," Chapter 69

Polyamory and Polyfidelity both represent a strong, divergence from the tradition, controlling relationship of Monogamy. Both are the natural tendency of humanity to develop a social environment and human relationships forged on the mutual, cooperative interests of its participants. 
Both seek the individual to fully express their sexuality and to celebrate the glory of sex. And both encourage multiple partners as a means of satisfying the diverse and complicated wants of the individual.

"The ancient Britons had a singular kind of marriage, to be met with among no other people. Any number of them, as ten or a dozen, joined in a society together, which was perhaps requisite for mutual defence in those barbarous times. In order to link this society the closer, they took an equal number of wives in common; and whatever children were born, were reputed to belong to all of them, and were accordingly provided for by the whole community."
--David Hume, 1758
"Essays, Moral, Literary, Politic," Section: "Of Polygamy and Divorces"

I would argue however that we are both a representation of the true nature of woman - Lesbian and a true more pure example of the "state of nature" in a community/ societal sense.

As women are born Lesbian, men  only have one real role, that of sperm donation for the purpose of reproduction.

However as none us either can or want to reproduce, for us they only have two real roles . That of "living dildos" for our occasional sexual gratification (if we like playing with penises/balls) but most importantly, a revenue source, after all we are realists.

No, we are not "man haters" we can  simply live/ love without them.

We simply use their systems of Patriarchy and monogamy both of which foster "cheating" to make some of our money and help support our life style and our mission.

Polyfidelity unlike monogamy balances the concepts of security and emotional commitment with liberty and sexual impulse. The individual lover, as much as they value their independence, does enjoy the security of knowing that they have partners with whom they are regularly active socially and sexually. 

This security is actually expanded within a polyfidelous relationship, since there are more partners interested in creative and sexual expression. The relationships are built around the same principles of mutual affection and desire, so they can last just as long. Though some of these polyfidelous relationships share living space, such as in our  convents, this is not always the case.

Security and possession of and an active sex partner are often the large justifications used on behalf of the monogamous relationship: 
"It guarantees an activity partner for mutual interests and enjoyments, including the stimulation of sex".

However, within the monogamous culture, the desire for exclusion is usually accompanied by a greater, personal insecurity. Some believe that even if they had a group marriage, as described by Polyfidelity, they would find themselves left out, with everyone else paired up to someone. The guarantee of personal gratification in monogamy, then, is based on the fact that your monogamous partner only has only you for their own gratification.
Unfortunately reality has little in the way to say in supporting monogamy, the increasing divorce rates, incidents of domestic violence, incest and the millions of cheaters (of both genders) are evidence of that.

With this security of having long-term, meaningful relationships, Polyfidelity also offers a significant amount of personal freedom to the participants. Monogamy only allows one partner. But Polyfidelity allows multiple, so that a polyfedilous relationship may be three people, or as many as ten or twenty. As every individual has a variety of tastes in all aspects of their culture and society, they must so in terms of their sexual preferences. With each participant of the polyfidelous relationship, there is another chance of being able to arouse these desires in new and different ways.

Your naughty author- The Abbott Nymphette

 2014

Nurses and Nuns

Nursing with the Nuns

The Curious Girl
Chapter I: The Loving Sister

Setting: June 5, 2014 — Somewhere in South West China.

A thunderous roar shook the dorm in which Iin resided in the early hours of a summer morning. She quickly jumped out of bed, startled by the thunder. She stared at the alarm clock, which illuminated the dark room with bright red letter and read six a.m.

Lin stumbled across the floor and looked outside the window to find a bleak sight: the rain falling heavily and trees bending beneath the wind. Knowing that she would not be able to return to her slumber in such forceful and lamentable conditions, she began her morning routine earlier than usual.

After grabbing her towel and her clothes that she wished to wear for the day, Lin knocked on the bathroom door to ensure that it was not being occupied by other girls,  since they shared a Jack and Jill style bathroom where two bedrooms are connected by this room. She entered, locked both doors, and proceeded to take her pajamas off.

Lin was one of the girls who enjoyed her changing body though the process of puberty. She was six months away from her eighteenth birthday, and three months away from entering nursing school. She enjoyed everything there was to come with puberty; it made her feel more like a woman because her sister Mia, who is exactly three years older than Lin, set that precedent of what Lin wanted to look like.
Lin had only been at the convent hospital a few days as a volunteer Nurses aid, she had come to get some experience.
As a lay person, she was housed in a dorm separate from the Nuns and it was pretty quiet. Although each room could house 4 nurses she had the room to herself.

As Lin undressed, she looked in the mirror and admired her flat stomach, her still growing breasts, the black bush that was growing between her legs, and the beauteous black hair atop of her head. After gazing at herself, she turned the water in the shower on until it was the desired temperature.

She stepped into the shower and let the warm, soothing water run over her body for a few moments to bring her out of her morning tiredness. Once Lin felt that she was alive, she took her razor and shaved the stubble under her arms . After completing this rather enjoyable task, she lathered her body and hair with soap, rinsed, then dried herself off and put her clothes on, which was a simple selection of nursing smock, knee length socks  without underwear because it was a hot, South Yunnan summer day.

Once she was dressed, Lin unlocked the other door, and then re-entered her room where she put her hair into a ponytail and pinned on her nursing cap. She then went downstairs to watch some television where she was alone because it appeared everyone else was either already at work  this  morning or because they were sleeping after their night shift.

What interested Lin most on television was the weather channel. This surprised many people because most teenagers enjoyed shows with drama. She sat down on her couch and turned to channel thirty-two, which was the weather channel. She saw the local weather: A hot, humid day with the highs in the upper eighties. This prevented most people, including Lin from going outside.

But, interrupting her viewing, Yao turned the water on for her shower. This made Lin exited because there was something that Lin was hiding and did not ever plan to tell anybody. She quickly turned the television off, and ran back up the stairs in the dark, nearly falling twice.

Lin went over to where there is a bookshelf against the wall. She moved the shelf aside and was able to see into a hole that was no larger than a dime. The whole was small; however, it allowed Lin a decent view of the bathroom. She could see everything except the wall in which the whole was on and the area just behind the shower where the bathtub begins.

Lin had discovered this hole while browsing through the books the other day and Lin was curious as to what the sister and Nurses looked like nude. 
As Lin began to look into the bathroom, she saw that Yao was already in the shower. Anna could only see the figure of Yao's body because the glass on the shower was already.

When Yao was finished with her shower, she turned the water off, grabbed her towel, dried off, and then stepped into plain view of Lin. Yao was a beauty and a role model to Lin; she wanted to grow up and look just like Yao, having a perfect hourglass figure, perfect B cup breasts, a perfect black bush in between her legs, and gorgeous black hair atop her head.

Lin began to feel that great feeling in between her legs. She reached down under her smock and felt the wetness growing from her pussy. Yao put her clothes on, and then went back into her room. Lin, still dazed by perfection, slowly moved the bookshelf back over the hole.

Even though Lin had seen Yao nude a few times through that same hole, she was in awe from her beauty every time. Viewing women nude whether it was herself, her others, or pornography in magazines or on the Internet always fascinated Lin, being young and more on the slutty side.

After watching Yao for a few minutes, Lin knew that it was now time to relieve her horniness. Not having locking bedroom doors, Lin needed to finish her business in the bathroom where there were locking doors.

She walked into the warm, humid, steamy bathroom and locked the door behind her to her room. She then pulled her smock up around her waist, sat on the toilet, and began masturbating. She inserted two of her fingers into her tight, wet pussy and closed her eyes, recalling the vivid nude images of Yao. She began to get faster as the feeling of pleasure grew stronger. She began to hear the sound of her fingers squishing with her pussy fluids and the sound of her hand patting her against the area above the vagina where the pubic hair is located.

Then suddenly, like a tidal wave coming over land, a wave of pleasure came over her body. She shook, squirmed, and right in the middle of her orgasm, opened her eyes to see Yao standing with the door slightly open.

“Get the Hell out of here, Yao,” exclaimed Lin.

Yao quickly closed the door; Lin stood up, tried to hide herself, and completely lost all feeling of pleasure. After feeling so embarrassed, she pulled her smock back downn, went back into her room, and began to cry.

Yao, feeling guilty of watching the younger girl, decided to go apologize.

“Lin,” Yao said calmly while knocking on the door.
“Lin, let me come in and talk to you please,” Yao continued.

Lin sopped up her tears to make it look like she was not crying. She gathered her strength, slowly walked to the door, and slowly opened it, afraid that Yao might have been angry with her for masturbating.

“Sorry I watched to while you were on the toilet. You left the door unlock and I didn't realize you were in there and, well…I really could pull myself away from the view of your amazing body,” Yao said in a remorseful tone.

“Do you really think my body is amazing?” replied Lin in a more so grateful manner.

"Yes," Yao replied, "ever since you arrived you've been a nice sight to look at."

Lin, feeling better about herself, said, “Oh…well…thanks…I guess… I've always kind of thought you were good looking’ too.”

“Well thank you for the compliment. I just came to apologize and tell you that it won’t happen again,” said Yao as she stood up to leave the room.

“Wait!” Lin exclaimed.

“What?” replied Yao.

“Do you think we could possibly, well, I don’t know, but maybe look at each other naked?” Lin said in a shy tone of voice.

Yao smiled and said, “Well, I guess so. I don’t see any harm in it.”

Both Yao and Lin were exploding with joy on the inside because they were able to look at each other nude, but they both acted as if it was no big deal.

“Well, Lin, take your clothes off,” said Yao.

“Oh, okay,” replied Lin.

Lin first completely stripped followed by Yao. They scrutinized each other’s bodies in awe of one another. Lin, being younger than Yao, did not have fully widened hips nor fully developed breasts.

“Let’s get on the bed, Lin,” said Yao after staring at Lin's developing body after two full minutes.

The girls got onto the bed. “Lay down with your head on the pillow,” Yao instructed to Lin.

Lin laid down on the cold bed. Yao did what Lin least expected. Yao laid on her stomach beneath Lin's crotch and began to lick her pussy, which was something she had learned from various segments of internet porn Yao had watched in the past.

“Woahh!” Lin shouted. “What are you doing? Where did you learn that? Is that safe?”

Yao replied in a calm tone, “Lin, don’t worry about it, just enjoy the pleasure.”

Lin calmed down and began to feel and intense pleasure that she had never felt by herself. She felt as if she was in an entire different world. Yao moved her tongue around Lin's pussy, licking the clitoris and even sometimes inserting her tongue into the vagina itself, tasting the young Seventeen-year-olds juices. Yao reached her arms around Lin's thighs for a better grip.

Lin closed her eyes and adored the deep, unparalleled felling that Yao was able to give her. She took her hands and placed then on her breasts, playing with her hard nipples to give even more satisfaction to this already unreal contentment.

Lin's breaths became higher pitched, shorter, and faster. Her face squinted along with the pleasure; her legs shaking; her hands now fully grasping both breasts. As Lin's chest rose and fell faster, Yao knew it was almost time. There were more juices flowing from Lin's pussy.

Lin clinched her knees together around Yao's head. She took one last giant breath, squinted her face, and then let it out as the best orgasm of her life took over her body. She buckled, shook, and let out a few soft moans. Yao in took a face full of Lin's fluids.

As Lin regained her breath, Yao slowed and finally stopped, smiled and said, “Damn, and you’re seventeen!”

“What do you mean?” replied Lin confused.

“You’re seventeen and you had that much cum,” said Yao.

“Oh, yeah, that happened a lot actually,” Lin replied laughingly.

“Well, okay. It’s my turn now,” exclaimed Yao.

“What am I supposed to do,” Lin ignorantly asked.

Yao smiled and said, “I don’t know, just lick my pussy ‘until I cum.”

“Okay,” Lin replied as she moved her face towards Yao's pussy. Lin licked up and down the clitoris. Yao, likewise never felt this same feeling before, was in awe of the amass of pleasure that was building. As Lin continued to lick, Yao developed the same orgasmic symptoms that Lin did first. Her chest began to rise and fall faster, her legs began to shutter, and her pussy began to extract more liquids.

Since Yao was already very horny, it did not take long for her to reach climax. Her hands grabbed her breasts, her knees shook, and her hips moved in such a manner that it was very hard for Lin to keep up. Yao let out one loud moan, then her body diminished to its normal state.

Lin sat up, laughed, and wiped her face and bed off with her towel. The girls sat there for a while still stunned by the intense orgasm they each had. Then they went into a long, thorough discussion of how, when, where, and all the aspects of masturbation for them each.

On this day, both Yao and Lin grew closer to one another than ever before with another girl. They would stop locking the doors in the bathroom, one would take a shower at the same time another took a bath or even they would both take a shower at the same time, and they would walk into each other’s room completely nude. When working together they enjoy each others company, especially on those long night shifts.

They lost their sense of privacy and grew together as loveable sisters.

Going through puberty can be the worst thing for some teenagers, especially lesbians. However, for some such as Lin and Yao, the best can be made out of it.
Both became novices and are currently attending nursing school.

2014

A Nuns story

Sister Butterfly

Sister Butterfly's story is not in any way unique or unusual.

Born into a poor rural family in SW China, the third of four children and the eldest of the 2 girls.

As she is a girl, she was never registered as being born, has no Hukuo and has had no schooling.

Her father is a migrant worker (Min gong) in the East of China, making MP 5's super cheap for sale in America. 

As she is a girl and no use on the farm she was sold to a brothel at the age of seven and was passed around several brothels in Thailand and Vietnam serving paedophiles from America, Australia and Europe.

On reaching the age of eleven (or there about's) Paedophiles loose interest, I guess the beginning of and development/ appearance of pubic hair and breasts turns them off.

So at 11 she sold to a "Adult brothel", by the time she was 16 she had 4 pregnancies behind her (all terminated) and was so infected by STD's that she could no longer walk. 

Now considered as of no more use she was scheduled for retirement (death), Luckily one of her friends contacted us and she was "snatched away".

After a short time she arrived at the Convent in Costa Rica.

She spent her first days in Dorm 1 under the care of  Sister's Dragon and Happy and with considerable help from the TCM doctors, the Yogis and Buddhist Nuns after about 3 months she could walk again and was disease free. 

Up and walking again

Once up and mobile, she threw herself into Convert life, never missing a therapy session, morning yoga, meditation  or any other activities.

Always more than willing to help others, she soon became a valued member of her dorm.

Guess which one is Butterfly

 It was wonderful to she her at her Princess party and later at her Re- Robe'ing .

Getting ready for Re-robe'ing

First day as a Sister

After ordination Sister Butterfly asked to among the group going to Ecuador, the Sister's had no objection, so we agreed.
As a Junior Sister, Butterfly took to life in Ecuador easily and was a valuable member of the convent there.




Last month she was recommended for promotion to Training sister, all agreed.
This of course meant re-assignment , I had in mind a position of greeter in the San Josa Convent.

On arriving back in Costa Rica, she requested a meeting with me and of course I agreed (why wouldn't I ?)

At the meeting, we talked for hours. I know sister Butterfly very well, but at this meeting she poured her heart out to me. Some of the things she told me about her past are really obscene and shocking (even to me).

On her knees in front of me she begged for me to grant her wishes, if it was my choice alone I would have, but I needed to consult another.

The answer was thankfully yes.......


So Senior Sister Butterfly returned to Asia and is now a   Sister in the main convent there and an assistant leader in Gemstones team.

Sister Butterfly arrives in Asia

Am I proud of her, you can bet your ass I am !

Life is weird, here is a girl, who's parents sold her into sex slavery, without any formal education, now an ex- sex slave and drug addict doing more to help others, than all the MA educated Social workers, unicef aid workers and the Ivy league feminists/ human rights activists put together. 
While they play on the i-pads built no doubt by her father (or others like him) worrying more about their retirement portfolios, the Msg in their food and the quality of shampoo at their Gym,  are doing period, she's out there rescuing girls.

But hey I'm rambling again, I'm just a woman and a whore, that's travelled in the real world and doesn't base reality on U.S daytime TV drama.

Sister Butterfly is what good in people Worldwide, good in Asians and more specifically Chinese women.

妓女

2014

Carry on Nun

This week is a big week, with over 20 girls celebrating their Princess day and 8 making the leap from Novice to Sister.
So a lot of frantic preparation going on to get ready for two large parties.

Gemstone also arrived escorting some new girls.

Gemstone  giving a look you don't want to get from her

Gemstone and Happy had a rough trip over with this group and was not very pleased . One of the girls had smuggled drugs, got high and  got raped on a stop over. She was really angry at this girl, as her actions jeopardized the whole group. But that's for another blog.
The silly girl has made an enemy (not Gemstone) in the order she could well do without.

Yoga- The path to Enlightenment

Every one loves a princess party, it's a great achievement and deserving of a wonderful celebration.

Princesses

Re-robbing ( the passage from Novice to Sister) is on the other hand a serious affair. The taking of Vows and formally joining the order.

Ready for Re-robing

Now we are sisters

Let the Games begin !

Wushu contest- Lining up

A knock-out contest and demonstration by the new Sisters against other sisters of their Wushu. The Wushu being a mix of Shaolin Kung Fu and Brazilian Coppelia  is serious and fearsome affair.

Opening a can of Whoop- ass on you !

Superior M won as usual despite the best efforts of the younger nuns and their dorm leaders.

Settling down, some licking their wounds, the new sisters demonstrate their working skills.

Always my favourite part of the ceremony.

That always gets the evening off to a good start, and a great night was had by all !!

Now a full Sister it's off to a convent and convent work

In the Red zone

妓女

2014